Conditioning shrinks the sample space to the rolls that sum to 8.
B={(2,6),(3,5),(4,4),(5,3),(6,2)},∣B∣=5
Of those, the rolls with an even first die are (2,6), (4,4), and (6,2).
P(first even∣sum=8)=53
Since P(first even)=21 and 53=21, these two events are dependent. Compare that with a sum of 7, where the same pair of events turns out to be independent. Independence is a numerical accident of the particular events, not a property you can see at a glance.