Delete the 28 and recompute both summaries on the nine remaining values, 4,6,7,9,10,12,13,15,16.
The new total is 92, so the mean falls from 12 to
xˉ=992≈10.22,
a drop of about 1.78. The new median is the fifth of the nine sorted values, which is 10, a drop of exactly 1 from the old median of 11.
Both summaries fall, because the value removed was above each of them, but the mean falls by nearly twice as much. The median only re-indexed by one position, while the mean gave up the full size of the deleted value.